Human weakness and vulnerable relationships

Please read this article and answer the following questions: 

• Have you ever heard of this kind of service?

• Why do you think these companies are flourishing?

• Do you think this kind of service is unique to Japan, or people anywhere might have a reason to use it?

I believe that this kind of service exists because it reflects some dark sides of ourselves: insecure, jealous, possessive, in endless pursuit of pleasure.  The people who are interested in this service may feel at first there is a crack in their relationship, which triggers their insecure feeling that urges them to hire someone to seduce their spouse. If seduction doesn’t work, that proves they have a tight relationship that cannot be broken up by others. If, unfortunately, their spouse accepts the seduction, it also proves that they have made a wise decision because now they have solid evidence against their spouse.   

Human beings are such weird creatures and vulnerable in relationships. We are eager to be in love with our lovers and would like to be dominant in a relationship. However, we cannot suffer the pain if our lovers betray us. We are tortured by these feelings, so that it sounds more reasonable to get ahead in a relationship by hiring a wakaresaseya service.

We should realize that every individual is an independent organism, that’s why we cannot have full control over people, and expect them to follow our rules.  Mutual respect and communication are key to maintaining a harmonious relationship, although we all know that is easier said than done.